Showing posts with label to swing with couples. Show all posts
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Thursday, November 8, 2012

Find Me Now Love - Getting Into The Swing

Find Me  Now Love

Getting Into The Swing

What does it take to cross the line from a traditional monogamous marriage to a swinger relationship? Swinging is a enormous thing. It seems that everyone is doing it! How did I miss this? I was introduced to this wild world of swinging one evening .
My buddy had invited me to this party. One guy was very smooth; he very casually asked my buddy if he would be fascinated in having sex with his wife . I was not sure I'd heard him correctly, until he continued by saying the he thought I was hot and would love to have sex with me. My buddy very quickly explained to this guy that we where not a couple just friends. Oh! That is too evil because my wife and I love to swing, he exclaimed. It was all just matter of fact. I did not know what to do or say.
This was going to be an interesting evening. Later that evening my buddy and I were observing the crowd and we started to notice that couples where slowly starting to pair off. There was a lot of nudity and swapping going on outside in the hot tub. I was in awe! I'd never been to a swinger party; it was kind of cool in a twisted weird way. I was fascinating to observe how the couples checked each other out and picked each other up. We started discussing with our friends, how do you become a swinger? For them it just happened one night with this couple that they'd been friends with for years. They had consumed a few martinis that evening and ended up in the hot tub all together. After the initial shock, it had been a fun. Now they preferred to swing with couples they did not know, it was more exciting. What about jealously? How do you watch your partner have sex with some one else? When couples get bored instead of having an affair, they can swing instead.
Swinging has become the new sexual revolution. There are swinger parties, clubs and vacations. You can go to an entire resort and meet hundreds of other couples and swing with a different couple everyday. How crazy is that? Is this a license for marital disaster or is swinging saving marriages from divorce. The couple that we had met, thought that swinging had created their marriage stronger because they both unused that they loved each other and where not insecure at all about the other person having sex with someone else. They loved that fact that they might try different partners while their partner was present. The sex with each other was always better than with a new couple but it was a great way to learn and attempt different techniques.

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