Find Me Now Love - Getting Into The Swing

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Getting Into The Swing

What does it take to cross the line from a traditional monogamous marriage to a swinger relationship? Swinging is a enormous thing. It seems that everyone is doing it! How did I miss this? I was introduced to this wild world of swinging one evening .
My buddy had invited me to this party. One guy was very smooth; he very casually asked my buddy if he would be fascinated in having sex with his wife . I was not sure I'd heard him correctly, until he continued by saying the he thought I was hot and would love to have sex with me. My buddy very quickly explained to this guy that we where not a couple just friends. Oh! That is too evil because my wife and I love to swing, he exclaimed. It was all just matter of fact. I did not know what to do or say.
This was going to be an interesting evening. Later that evening my buddy and I were observing the crowd and we started to notice that couples where slowly starting to pair off. There was a lot of nudity and swapping going on outside in the hot tub. I was in awe! I'd never been to a swinger party; it was kind of cool in a twisted weird way. I was fascinating to observe how the couples checked each other out and picked each other up. We started discussing with our friends, how do you become a swinger? For them it just happened one night with this couple that they'd been friends with for years. They had consumed a few martinis that evening and ended up in the hot tub all together. After the initial shock, it had been a fun. Now they preferred to swing with couples they did not know, it was more exciting. What about jealously? How do you watch your partner have sex with some one else? When couples get bored instead of having an affair, they can swing instead.
Swinging has become the new sexual revolution. There are swinger parties, clubs and vacations. You can go to an entire resort and meet hundreds of other couples and swing with a different couple everyday. How crazy is that? Is this a license for marital disaster or is swinging saving marriages from divorce. The couple that we had met, thought that swinging had created their marriage stronger because they both unused that they loved each other and where not insecure at all about the other person having sex with someone else. They loved that fact that they might try different partners while their partner was present. The sex with each other was always better than with a new couple but it was a great way to learn and attempt different techniques.

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Find Me Now Love - Swinging

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Swinging
To me, the definition of swinging is pure fun and excitement, but let’s dispense with the nitty gritty.
Swingers don’t wear signs or get tattooed to exhibit their off-hours activities. In fact, you may not recognize someone who swings at all. Some couples have reported going to swingers clubs, only to run into their next door neighbors!
What we see like
Swingers come in all shapes and sizes and genders. We can be heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. There really aren’t any restrictions. The only limitations are those of your creativity.
If you want some better statistics, then let’s talk about the majority of swingers. Most of us are anywhere from our late twenties to our early fifties. Many of us are already married and looking to take our sexual experience to the next level.
Most swingers are well-groomed, well-dressed, and just your everyday man or woman .
Why we’re swinging
You might amazement why a decent, attractive couple or single is looking to try swinging. There doesn’t seem to be a clear reason if they already have a partner to share sexual relations with. Do you really want to know?
Most of the swinging couples aren’t having troubles or are looking to alter their relationship; they’re actually looking to increase their intimacy. Living out fantasies of being with another person in a safe and open environment can bring greater communication and appreciation of your partner.
Experienced swingers report that even after twenty years (!) of swinging, they are better able to talk with their partner and sort out unrelated problems than they'd have been without the swinging experience.
How we’re swinging
But what you actually want to know is what exactly happens when you’re swinging. Come on, you’ve thought about it.
For the beginner swinger, you’ll find that you can go to a club or out with another couple and just look the ‘festivities’ lacking having to participate.
If that’s not enough , then you can progress to interacting with another couple or single in a safe environment (think a club or a mutually chosen location). This doesn’t cruel that you've to have sex, but it can involve touching and exploring another person while your partner is in the same room. And moving onto some harder swinging, this is where there are still rules, but the playbook changes, becoming much bigger.
You can go ahead and have intercourse with another person, either with or lacking the presence of your partner. And I might go into more details, but I’ll leave your imagination to fill in the blanks.
Swinging is experiencing sex and intimacy with another couple or person because your current relationship is strong.  You need to try one thing unused and are curious about interacting with another person, gender, or sexual arena. And at the end of the evening , you still go residence with your partner—more open and more committed to each other.
Swinging opens up all kinds of things for a couple.
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