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What Not To Do While Making Love
Lovemaking should be the ultimate feeling for both of you, but sometimes it can feel less than special. To help you get the most from the moment here are six things which you should avoid doing wile making the beast with two backs.
1) Continuing watching TV / Reading a book Come on, your lover wants to feel you are shaking their world , not that you would rather be looking your favourite soap opera.
2) Excessive groaning There can be many things that bring greater pleasure than hearing your lover groaning with pleasure, but if you make too much extra noise to attempt to make your partner feel good you risk the opposite - giving the impression that you are purely putting on a show and possibly removed from the act.
3) Calling out another person's title . Unless you have both agreed to role-play beforehand this is a definite no-no and it's very likely to get you into trouble with your partner. If you are extremely comfortable together then dropping it in could bring some extra kink into lovemaking as part of a spontaneous role-play, but no matter how close you are, if it comes out too naturally it will always hurt your partner emotionally.
4) Ask if he's cum yet. This can upset men for two main reasons; firstly that it immediately gives the impression that you're just waiting for the experience to be over (If you're he's not going to finish any faster if she knows that, it'll deflate hers ego), and secondly because for a man much of the sexual act is based around orgasm, and the idea that you don't even know his intense moment of pleasure can take from the moment.
5) Pretending they are a specific character. Role-play can be fun for both partners, and many couples enjoy enacting their policeman/woman, nurse or other fantasies with their partner. You may discover your partner isn't quite so comfortable if they think you're imagining them as your childhood pinup or ex-partner, though.
6) Taking it too seriously If you accidentally do any of the over then make sure you don't do this! Nearly each situation in bed can be laughed off. Which of us has never tripped or fallen over during lovemaking, if you take it too seriously it'll spoil the mood, laugh together and sharing the laughter will make you feel closer.
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What Not To Do While Making Love
Lovemaking should be the ultimate feeling for both of you, but sometimes it can feel less than special. To help you get the most from the moment here are six things which you should avoid doing wile making the beast with two backs.
1) Continuing watching TV / Reading a book Come on, your lover wants to feel you are shaking their world , not that you would rather be looking your favourite soap opera.
2) Excessive groaning There can be many things that bring greater pleasure than hearing your lover groaning with pleasure, but if you make too much extra noise to attempt to make your partner feel good you risk the opposite - giving the impression that you are purely putting on a show and possibly removed from the act.
3) Calling out another person's title . Unless you have both agreed to role-play beforehand this is a definite no-no and it's very likely to get you into trouble with your partner. If you are extremely comfortable together then dropping it in could bring some extra kink into lovemaking as part of a spontaneous role-play, but no matter how close you are, if it comes out too naturally it will always hurt your partner emotionally.
4) Ask if he's cum yet. This can upset men for two main reasons; firstly that it immediately gives the impression that you're just waiting for the experience to be over (If you're he's not going to finish any faster if she knows that, it'll deflate hers ego), and secondly because for a man much of the sexual act is based around orgasm, and the idea that you don't even know his intense moment of pleasure can take from the moment.
5) Pretending they are a specific character. Role-play can be fun for both partners, and many couples enjoy enacting their policeman/woman, nurse or other fantasies with their partner. You may discover your partner isn't quite so comfortable if they think you're imagining them as your childhood pinup or ex-partner, though.
6) Taking it too seriously If you accidentally do any of the over then make sure you don't do this! Nearly each situation in bed can be laughed off. Which of us has never tripped or fallen over during lovemaking, if you take it too seriously it'll spoil the mood, laugh together and sharing the laughter will make you feel closer.
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