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First Date Success
Dating can be stressful but initial dates can be particularly painful and nerve wrecking. Follow my simple tips to getting alert for a date and before you know it you’ll be breezing through first dates with you’re only concern being what to wear on your second date.
1. Don’t stress! First of all, attempt not to stress yourself out. Tell yourself, it’s only a date and if it doesn’t work out, so what?
2. Easy on the wedding plans You may laugh but don’t begin planning your wedding! We’ve all been there; dreaming that this might be the one, that you’ll drop in love after a whirlwind romance and get married… and all before you’ve ordered your starter!
3. Listen to music. Listen to some music whilst you’re getting ready; whatever gets you in the mood for a evening out and relaxes you.
4. Soak in a bath If you have time, take a long soak in the bath with a tiny glass of wine to relax you. I emphasise the word “small”; you don’t want to turn up drunk or smelling of alcohol.
5. Subtle make-up Girls, attempt to keep your make-up subtle.
6. Hair to go You don’t need a tall maintenance hair style that has you running to the toilet every two minutes to check it’s in place so adhere to what you know suits you and what you feel comfortable with.
7. What to wear? Don’t wear anything too revealing on a initial date as it could give out the wrong impression. Remember you can still look sexy without revealing all your goods; less is more! Decide what you’re going to wear in advance so you’re not in a final minute panic with a bedroom floor covered in reject outfits..
8. Killer heels or comfy flats? As for shoes, heels look great but only if you can walk in them so only wear shoes that you're comfortable in.
9. Fresh breath Don’t forget to clean your teeth and rinse with a mouthwash. It may sound obvious but so many people forget. Also, retain a packet of mints or chewing gum in your bag in case you need to freshen up later .
10. Aroma, aroma! Once you’re alert , don’t forget to squirt a bit of your favourite perfume behind the ears and on your wrist .
11. Arrange transport Book a taxi or arrange for someone to donate you a lift so you get to your meeting place in plenty of time.
12. Keep the conversation flowing.Give some thought to what you’re going to talk about. Obviously, you can’t plan it word for word but think about things you want to find out about him and questions you might inquire to retain the conversation flowing. If you know a good joke, it’s always good to throw that in at some point in the evening to lighten the mood.
13. A kiss goodnight – no more! Don’t feel pressured into going back to his place or inviting her into yours and certainly don’t feel pressured into having sex! I think it’s best to end the evening with a goodnight kiss so you both abandon each other needing more and more importantly eager to arrange that second date.
14. Watch your drink. Don’t drink excessively! It’s easy to drink faster and more than you'd normally because of your nerves but try and pace yourself and if you do feel yourself getting more than tipsy, drink some water.
15. Tell a friend Tell a ally or family member where you’re going and who with and let them know when you’ve arrived home safe .
16. Have fun Finally, don’t forget to enjoy yourself and have fun!
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First Date Success
Dating can be stressful but initial dates can be particularly painful and nerve wrecking. Follow my simple tips to getting alert for a date and before you know it you’ll be breezing through first dates with you’re only concern being what to wear on your second date.
1. Don’t stress! First of all, attempt not to stress yourself out. Tell yourself, it’s only a date and if it doesn’t work out, so what?
2. Easy on the wedding plans You may laugh but don’t begin planning your wedding! We’ve all been there; dreaming that this might be the one, that you’ll drop in love after a whirlwind romance and get married… and all before you’ve ordered your starter!
3. Listen to music. Listen to some music whilst you’re getting ready; whatever gets you in the mood for a evening out and relaxes you.
4. Soak in a bath If you have time, take a long soak in the bath with a tiny glass of wine to relax you. I emphasise the word “small”; you don’t want to turn up drunk or smelling of alcohol.
5. Subtle make-up Girls, attempt to keep your make-up subtle.
6. Hair to go You don’t need a tall maintenance hair style that has you running to the toilet every two minutes to check it’s in place so adhere to what you know suits you and what you feel comfortable with.
7. What to wear? Don’t wear anything too revealing on a initial date as it could give out the wrong impression. Remember you can still look sexy without revealing all your goods; less is more! Decide what you’re going to wear in advance so you’re not in a final minute panic with a bedroom floor covered in reject outfits..
8. Killer heels or comfy flats? As for shoes, heels look great but only if you can walk in them so only wear shoes that you're comfortable in.
9. Fresh breath Don’t forget to clean your teeth and rinse with a mouthwash. It may sound obvious but so many people forget. Also, retain a packet of mints or chewing gum in your bag in case you need to freshen up later .
10. Aroma, aroma! Once you’re alert , don’t forget to squirt a bit of your favourite perfume behind the ears and on your wrist .
11. Arrange transport Book a taxi or arrange for someone to donate you a lift so you get to your meeting place in plenty of time.
12. Keep the conversation flowing.Give some thought to what you’re going to talk about. Obviously, you can’t plan it word for word but think about things you want to find out about him and questions you might inquire to retain the conversation flowing. If you know a good joke, it’s always good to throw that in at some point in the evening to lighten the mood.
13. A kiss goodnight – no more! Don’t feel pressured into going back to his place or inviting her into yours and certainly don’t feel pressured into having sex! I think it’s best to end the evening with a goodnight kiss so you both abandon each other needing more and more importantly eager to arrange that second date.
14. Watch your drink. Don’t drink excessively! It’s easy to drink faster and more than you'd normally because of your nerves but try and pace yourself and if you do feel yourself getting more than tipsy, drink some water.
15. Tell a friend Tell a ally or family member where you’re going and who with and let them know when you’ve arrived home safe .
16. Have fun Finally, don’t forget to enjoy yourself and have fun!
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