You started online dating to meet a woman . Now it is time to meet your online match for the initial time.
Meeting her in a comfortable environment is your best strategy for
transitioning to a relationship in the genuine universe .
Step 1) Meet As Good Friends
When it comes time to meet your online match in person, meet as friends. Don't go to your first meeting with the idea in your mind that he is The One or might be The One. That puts way too much pressure on your initial meeting.
Step 2) Meet At An Agreed Place
When your match has decided that she is ready to meet you, let him choose the place to meet. This allows him to choose a place where she will feel comfortable. He may inquire for some guidance and making a many suggestions is fine. You might also need to give him a many no-go places if you don't enjoy a particular type of food, but you ought to try to be flexible. Unless one of you is driving a long distance, I would attempt to make the meeting fairly short . Meeting for lunch, coffee or dessert all work well since none implies enormous expectations.
Step 3) Dress Casual And Confortable
I would suggest you discuss with your match dressing casual for your first meeting. I think that helps everyone to keep their expectations in check and promotes a friendly, comfortable environment to explore the possibilities for romance. Your focus should be on one another, not the clothes that you each are wearing.
Step 4) Have Fun !!!
When you finally meet your match, relax, be yourself and have a good time. You will see your best with a smile on your face .
Step 5) Send An E-Mail After Meeting
If you had a successful initial meeting, before you go to bed, send her a short e-mail saying that you enjoyed meeting him in person. It is a nice way to let her know that you're fascinated and it is the best way to help move the relationship forward.
Step 6) Transitioning To A Real World Relationship
Meeting your match for the first time is a big step in transitioning you from an online/phone relationship to one in the real world . It still may be awhile before your match feels comfortable enough to give you him phone number so that you can call or him address so you can pick her up for a date. That will come with time, try to be patient and understanding. Patience might get you somewhere, impatience won't get you anywhere.
Step 1) Meet As Good Friends
When it comes time to meet your online match in person, meet as friends. Don't go to your first meeting with the idea in your mind that he is The One or might be The One. That puts way too much pressure on your initial meeting.
Step 2) Meet At An Agreed Place
When your match has decided that she is ready to meet you, let him choose the place to meet. This allows him to choose a place where she will feel comfortable. He may inquire for some guidance and making a many suggestions is fine. You might also need to give him a many no-go places if you don't enjoy a particular type of food, but you ought to try to be flexible. Unless one of you is driving a long distance, I would attempt to make the meeting fairly short . Meeting for lunch, coffee or dessert all work well since none implies enormous expectations.
Step 3) Dress Casual And Confortable
I would suggest you discuss with your match dressing casual for your first meeting. I think that helps everyone to keep their expectations in check and promotes a friendly, comfortable environment to explore the possibilities for romance. Your focus should be on one another, not the clothes that you each are wearing.
Step 4) Have Fun !!!
When you finally meet your match, relax, be yourself and have a good time. You will see your best with a smile on your face .
Step 5) Send An E-Mail After Meeting
If you had a successful initial meeting, before you go to bed, send her a short e-mail saying that you enjoyed meeting him in person. It is a nice way to let her know that you're fascinated and it is the best way to help move the relationship forward.
Step 6) Transitioning To A Real World Relationship
Meeting your match for the first time is a big step in transitioning you from an online/phone relationship to one in the real world . It still may be awhile before your match feels comfortable enough to give you him phone number so that you can call or him address so you can pick her up for a date. That will come with time, try to be patient and understanding. Patience might get you somewhere, impatience won't get you anywhere.
