Showing posts with label boyfriend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label boyfriend. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Find Me Now Love - Are You Moving Too Fast In Your Relationship?

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Are You Moving Too Fast In Your Relationship?
When I was 16 years old, I was in deep like with a guy I was dating. He was purely the anti-boyfriend of my parents' choosing. He drove a black car with a souped up engine. He smoked cigarettes. He had horrible manners. He would beep the horn for me when he came to pick me up. It drove my mother crazy. I mean actually looking back - he had no respect. But that's not why I'll remember him .
What I'll recollect is that I went to an amusement park one weekend and bought a keychain that had both our names with a heart in between them. I thought it was cute and I thought he'd get a small chuckle out of it. Uh - not! He read me the riot act about how I pressure guys and that I was simply too pushy and that he didn't think this entire thing was going to work out. All this on my own front doorstep. Needless to say, I was devastated.I hadn't known this about myself whether it was his truth or the truth. I carried it with me up until the point I realized that I was in a fully reciprocal relationship .
What's the moral of this story ?
Well, it was kind of pushy for me to purchase a keychain with our names when he wasn't my personal boyfriend and he didn't buy it with me or for me. I was forcing the issue. So take this teenage lesson and apply it to your lives presently - never compel the issue. It only makes you look desperate or clueless.
Tips That You're Moving Too Fast
1. You are thinking about what your children will see like
2. You aren't interested in meeting anyone else and have been dating for a month
3. You quiz him about his incoming calls--everyday!
4. You call him before you give him a chance to return the FIRST call
5. You are leaving things in his residence "by accident" like a toothbrush, underwear, etc.
6. You need to meet his mom and request her stuff about his childhood
7. You WANT to quiz him about his incoming phone calls
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Saturday, October 20, 2012

Find Me Now Love - How to Get a Boyfriend

Find Me Now Love Blog Post
How to Get a Boyfriend
Boys are very complicated… they are not like women, and they do not just want to be used as fashion statements. So if you want a boyfriend, make sure that you like him and are willing to be in a serious commitment with him, or at least you feel you may be if you get to know him better, and won’t break his heart. Below are some things that show ways to get your man by your side as your dating.
First, if you do not already know him, then introduce yourself. If he is interested in you enough to want to get to know you better himself, he will add in some women conversation eventually.
- Show him interest in his life.
- Make it easy for him to be friendly and talkative with you, but not overpowering.
- Invite him to a party… but not just to make out with him or anything, be friendly with him alone until he makes it clear that he really likes you, and wants to be around you.
- At this point, just be yourself and let things unwind themselves.
Here is some simple women lifestyle personality dating tips :
If the person you like is shy, then be very gentle to him but admire him for his strengths, few men can resist being told how manly they are unless the girl who tells them is one they are very uninterested in.
Do not be afraid, if you feel you can go up to him without him bashing your heart against the wall (whether on purpose or not) and you notice his seeming interest in you, then you are probably okay.
And..
Do not use him… boys may be bad about using women, but they can still be weak around an irrisistable women even if they are not interested in her, which means breaking your heart and merely adding on his horrible guilt, or having a stalker who wants you for the WRONG reasons. So do not parade yourself around boys too much, for both your own good and their own good and your dating.
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