Tuesday, January 1, 2013

I Want To Date My Friend

Maybe yes, maybe no, this depends on the relationship you have with your friend . Will asking your friend out make them uncomfortable? Or, is it that you both feel the same way but don't know how to approach each other about this subject. You say, you don't need to ruin the relationship you've with your ally , if you ask them out for a date and they say no. 

You couldn't deal with the rejection and embarrassment that you might feel later on. Simona has known Jack for three years and they are near friends. Jack know how she feels. Ironically, Simona has needed to date Jack since they met while attending college classes three years ago. He has been wanting Jack to request her out on a formal date, but he hasn't. She even thought about asking him out, but she was unsure if this would create problems for their friendship. 

Neither one of them know what they ought to do, so they haven't done anything about how they feel. Could it be that your friend is feeling the same way you do, but too has a fear of rejection as well! There's accquired to be an easier way to break the ice, to get us both past this, if we think our relationship can be more than a friendship. Are there some signs that you both are giving off that might make you think you are attracted to each other in a romantic way outside of your friendship? 

Well, here are some signs that you might need to look for, when you consider approaching your friend about going on a date and developing your romantic relationship


1) Both of you find yourselves staring at each other for long periods of time but don't say how you feel about each other romantically. 

2) You both spend nearly everyday with each other and you feel like that no day is complete lacking spending time together. 

3) You and your ally think about each other all the time. You both discover that you say each others names all the time. You even sometimes complete each others sentences.

4) Both of you feel butterflies inside when you see each other and are very anxious and happy to be together. 

5) You both enjoy spending lots of time together and never seem to get enough of each other.



Well, if you and your ally have any of these signs then it sounds like you're more than just good friends! You must be in love! It's probably a good idea at this point to go for it! Ask your ally out on a date. Chances are, your ally might have wanted to do the same thing. You'll be happy you did. Both of you will probably wonder why you didn't do this sooner. Looks like Simona and Jack will be asking each other out on a date soon !

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