The question frequently comes up
on what types of pictures to put up on dating sites, and how many.
Generally, you want to put up more than one picture, and include
photos of yourself in different places and circumstances, engaging in
different activities. This gives potential dates an idea of what kinds
of things you enjoy, and where you like to go.
Beyond that, here are a few dos and don'ts that may assist you
decide on which photos to upload.
1) Do use natural photos instead of glamour shots.
2) Do post pictures of yourself smiling. This generally is regarded more positively by most people , and makes you seem friendly. A friendly, smiling face is too more likely to generate interest and encourage communication.
3) Do post recent pictures. 2 or 3 year-old photos may still be okay, but a picture from 5 to 10 years ago is probably not appropriate or representative of how you see at this time . We all looked better when we were a lot younger, but the point should be to post photos that are accurate and show who you are today.
4) Do not post pictures that include ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. This may seem obvious, but many people post pictures with previous romantic acquaintances, sometimes in cuddly situations, and this can be a turnoff to many people . Remember, people are on dating sites to begin new relationships, and if you have photos of yourself in previous relationships, it might seem like you aren't over them yet.
5) Do edit your photos. Do not make them too small , and crop out unnecessary things or vacant space from the photo. The pictures should be about you, so eliminate anything that does not relate directly to who you are.
6) Do post clear, well-lit pictures. Many folks have photos that are too dark or otherwise unclear. Again, this might come off like you're hiding something . It should not be difficult to get a clear photo using any decent digital camera. Dark/light photos can be adjusted with photo imaging software, and if you don't have one, a ally can probably edit the picture for you in 5 minutes.
7) Do include full body photos if you can. Many people express a preference for more than just a head shot. If you show just your face , some folks think you may be hiding something . Even if you don't have the best figure, it's better to show at least 1/2 to 3/4 of your body to donate a better idea of what you see like. People are going to find out how you see eventually anyway, and it's better to be upfront.
Make sure you choose your photos carefully. Have fun selecting your photos, and as much as possible, use photos that bring out what makes you unique and special.
1) Do use natural photos instead of glamour shots.
2) Do post pictures of yourself smiling. This generally is regarded more positively by most people , and makes you seem friendly. A friendly, smiling face is too more likely to generate interest and encourage communication.
3) Do post recent pictures. 2 or 3 year-old photos may still be okay, but a picture from 5 to 10 years ago is probably not appropriate or representative of how you see at this time . We all looked better when we were a lot younger, but the point should be to post photos that are accurate and show who you are today.
4) Do not post pictures that include ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. This may seem obvious, but many people post pictures with previous romantic acquaintances, sometimes in cuddly situations, and this can be a turnoff to many people . Remember, people are on dating sites to begin new relationships, and if you have photos of yourself in previous relationships, it might seem like you aren't over them yet.
5) Do edit your photos. Do not make them too small , and crop out unnecessary things or vacant space from the photo. The pictures should be about you, so eliminate anything that does not relate directly to who you are.
6) Do post clear, well-lit pictures. Many folks have photos that are too dark or otherwise unclear. Again, this might come off like you're hiding something . It should not be difficult to get a clear photo using any decent digital camera. Dark/light photos can be adjusted with photo imaging software, and if you don't have one, a ally can probably edit the picture for you in 5 minutes.
7) Do include full body photos if you can. Many people express a preference for more than just a head shot. If you show just your face , some folks think you may be hiding something . Even if you don't have the best figure, it's better to show at least 1/2 to 3/4 of your body to donate a better idea of what you see like. People are going to find out how you see eventually anyway, and it's better to be upfront.
Make sure you choose your photos carefully. Have fun selecting your photos, and as much as possible, use photos that bring out what makes you unique and special.
