Flirting online has its pro's & con's.
When flirting offline you can time it correctly...you've learned the proper ''flirting'' body language & eye contact. Online...? You are at a slight disadvantage.
You cannot see them. It is hard to judge their mood or gauge their reaction, a bit with cam.
Beginning with the cons:
But on the flip side, you can be as ''racy'' as you like, & the other person cannot see your embarrassment! Things you would not dream of saying to someone's face, is now safe to say when you are hidden behind a monitor & keyboard!
Please, do not engage in forbidden flirting until you know the other person very well. To do so with a stranger...? You are asking for trouble...so don't be surprised when you get a very graphic proposition. Don't say I didn't warn you...
When flirting offline, they usually start with a compliment about of their physical attributes. But flirting online, they may or may not have a clear picture that exactly shows their features. It would be daft to comment on their eye color, if we are not positive if their eyes are blue or dark grey.
I find of the safest & most effective forms of flirting online, is to report a location, & express a desire to share it with them. (''I'm alone watching the sundown...it is magically changing gradually in to every shade from pink...to gold...to purple. It is so romantic...I wish you were here to share it with me...'') or (''I would love to feel your arms drape across my shoulders as they casually stroll around the pond at our local park. I can feel the strength & heat of your embrace...'')
Use your imagination...use your words. Practice until it feels natural. You are only limited by your own creativity! Go ahead...get to flirtin'...
When flirting offline you can time it correctly...you've learned the proper ''flirting'' body language & eye contact. Online...? You are at a slight disadvantage.
You cannot see them. It is hard to judge their mood or gauge their reaction, a bit with cam.
Beginning with the cons:
But on the flip side, you can be as ''racy'' as you like, & the other person cannot see your embarrassment! Things you would not dream of saying to someone's face, is now safe to say when you are hidden behind a monitor & keyboard!
Please, do not engage in forbidden flirting until you know the other person very well. To do so with a stranger...? You are asking for trouble...so don't be surprised when you get a very graphic proposition. Don't say I didn't warn you...
When flirting offline, they usually start with a compliment about of their physical attributes. But flirting online, they may or may not have a clear picture that exactly shows their features. It would be daft to comment on their eye color, if we are not positive if their eyes are blue or dark grey.
I find of the safest & most effective forms of flirting online, is to report a location, & express a desire to share it with them. (''I'm alone watching the sundown...it is magically changing gradually in to every shade from pink...to gold...to purple. It is so romantic...I wish you were here to share it with me...'') or (''I would love to feel your arms drape across my shoulders as they casually stroll around the pond at our local park. I can feel the strength & heat of your embrace...'')
Use your imagination...use your words. Practice until it feels natural. You are only limited by your own creativity! Go ahead...get to flirtin'...
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