How To Review Online Profiles

To check out the competition, I strongly suggest you review online profiles.
Just randomly pick a few and review them from top to bottom.

Start with the profile User Name. Was it witty, silly, crude, or cute? Did it seem appropriate for their age? Did it seem like a good fit, when compared to the photo?

Check out the quality of the main photo. Does it look professional? Does it look cheap and cheesy?

Look at the photo album. Any pictures? Are they all group shots? Animal shots? Are the pictures all of them, them and more them?

Read their answers to the sites essay questions. Does it look like they put any thought into their responses? Did they choose to leave the questions blank?

When they were asked personal questions about themselves, were the answers funny, boring, or did they completely skip this section?

Did they add anything additional to give you more insight as to who they are?

How well did they describe the type of person they are looking for? Were they specific or did you get the impression that anyone would do?

What do you think their hobbies say about them? Do you get the impression they are a couch potato? Do they seem too busy to have time for a relationship?

Once you have reviewed a few profiles, it will help you decide what to include in your profile and what to leave out. Include the types of things that caught your attention. Omit the things you thought were boring and useless.

Now you will have the basic outline for your own profile. Go! Start filling it in, and get ready to put it up!

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Does Online Dating Really Work?

Give Online Dating a Chance

If you were to have asked that question to dating singles a few years ago the answer would be a resounding "no". Experience over the past few years as results are coming in from online dating services the answer becomes a bit more positive yet conditional. Just as dating the traditional way requires time and effort a successful online dating experience requires about the same commitment. You wouldn't necessarily expect a romantic true love relationship to develop in a traditional approach if you were to never call or only spend five minutes a week on meeting a perspective match. Additionally, if you never dressed up for a traditional date you might be waiting a long time to meet the true love of your life.

Put your best face forward. All online dating sites provide their members a place to post personals ads. This personals ad space is your billboard. It gives other singles a five-second-look at you so use every tool in building your personals ad. Some online dating services provide you with the ability to upload a picture, audio clip and even a video clip of yourself. Don't pass on these opportunities. Posting a video clip on your personals ad space is a huge advantage over those who only post a photo. Singles and perspective suitors will linger at your ad longer and video and/or audio clips give them a unique connection to you. It is true that personals ads with pictures have an 80 more desirable.

As technology improves more online dating sites are beginning to introduce audio and video chat. These services provide online singles a way to see and hear the other person. This is a tremendous advantage. Seeing a photo and chatting through email or in a chat room is great for learning more about a person but actually being able to talk and see that other person is paramount. Spending time just talking with someone and learning by observing their body language tips the scales a bit away from the old traditional approach.

Dating sites that spin the personality profile as the definitive solution for matching singles are no substitute for actually spending the time getting to know the other person. There is no conclusive evidence that personality matching really works. Really getting to know one another is the best solution. There are no shortcuts to finding love. There are, however, tools that make it more fun, safe, and convenient for meeting other singles. Pick an online dating service that offers the most and the latest tools for meeting singles. Be prepared to put some time in on developing your online relationships. Log onto your dating service and hang out in the chat room, send casual messages to other singles that you would like to learn more about. Remember online relationships can be very fulfilling and long-lived. Give them the time they deserve.

Finding The Right Online Dating Service

Is online dating right for you? That's a good question, and we will help you answer it by giving you some tips on what to look for in a dating service.

You can find everything from free dating services to paid memberships. This is really an area where you can get what you pay for. With benefits such as perfect match, profiles, online chat, and so on, you do have options.


1. You may not want your friends to know you are trying out dating services. For this reason your privacy can be important to you. Most online dating services will not require a pictures on your profile if you do not have one or want one. You have control over what you list.

2. Ease of use is a great feature as well. Feeling comfortable with everything from the appearance of the site to how easy it is to get around in will be important to you.


3. Most people will agree that having a large number of people to meet online is quicker than going to bars or social clubs.

4. Choices are very important, the number of members will certainly offer more choices to you, however this is not the only factor you want to look at. Having sections that offer specific choices for religion, race, sex, interests, etc. really allows you to zero in on the choices important to you.

5. How much are you willing to spend each month for your membership? Different people have different budgets so cost is a factor in finding the right online dating service.

6. What type of matching system do the dating site offer. At first this may or may not be important to you, but it can be a time saver.


7. First of all online dating services are not new. Because there are many well established online dating services you are no longer the guinea pig. Millions of people use them which can be good and bad.

8. Features that the online dating service offer vary from one site to the next. Finding the ones that mean the most to you is a good way to choose the right service.


9. Security and safety is always a concern, especially for women. You must know that no private information will be disclosed to a third party without your consent and if you are being harassed by a certain member. You can ask the online dating service to block them or even cancel their membership. 


These are a few things to consider when trying to find the right online dating service. The nice thing is the internet gives you many options and you can take your time and do research first.

When Mars And Venus Meet

When Mars and Venus meet, I am not talking about the planets. I am talking two people who are attractive to each other and have sex for a purpose. Let's talk about the purpose of having sex. Sex is not foreplay unless you want to. Sex is not only about sex. To most people, sex is making love. They are sharing their body and emotions to someone they love most. If people have sex just to get some and to release stress, then what is love for?

I know people are responsible for their own actions. They have the right to make a choice to have sex or not, but I can't change the way they think about sex. People love having sex because it brings out excitement and pleasure. People love having sex to satisfy their partner. People love having sex at the heat of the moment. That is not love, period.

Another reason I want to mention is people have sex just to rank up their count and experience. I advise men and women not to do this because it will haunt you later on in life. What happens if you're on your date and they ask you how many times you have sex, and how many people? What are you going to say? 7? 11?

To men, if you're on a date and they say 8, what are you going to think? Is this too much for a woman? Of course, women have it much harder than men do in today's society.

To women, if you're on a date and they say 16, what are you going to think? That this guy is no use to me and he will just run away if we have sex?

My point is, sex should be based on whether you want to share it with someone you are in love with. People should be protective and must choose their actions correctly. If sex is about having sex and nothing more than that, then reconsider your actions. When Venus and mars meet, anything is possible. Being in love is possible.